tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26239001621785064482024-03-08T01:12:00.569-08:00Cups of JoyLittle cups of inspiration sprinkled with gratitude and stirred to perfection.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09488641566964956373noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2623900162178506448.post-17597366443916189432014-02-04T13:02:00.000-08:002014-02-04T13:03:31.245-08:00Love of a Good Man<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Today I am grateful for my husband.<br />
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As husbands go he's pretty amazing and as father's go, well he's just the best. But, as people go - well, my husband surpasses all expectations.<br />
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There is a goodness inside my husband that radiates from within. Anyone who meets him will see that he has tapped into a sensitivity most men never get the opportunity to experience. He has learned the key to being a good man lays in the ability to be <i>vulnerable</i>. </div>
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Women have long-excelled at the gift of being open or wearing their hearts on their sleeves. Men, taught from a young age to keep their feelings at bay, don't often emote. Yet, my husband has learned to express his emotions, his feelings, his inner desires, his life's regrets and make changes to become the best man he can be. The best husband he can be. The best father he can be. The best person he can be. </div>
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I find myself in total admiration of his 180 sometimes. From a self-serving young man, full of age-appropriate selfish desires to becoming a person who tries to understand. To listen. To give fully of himself and accept my imperfections. I am grateful for the opportunity to be his wife and the challenge we have of becoming an even better couple, together.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09488641566964956373noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2623900162178506448.post-44890179944470207962014-01-24T11:54:00.002-08:002014-01-24T11:54:27.898-08:00<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Today I am grateful for heat.<br />
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A simple treasure, but on days like this frigid Friday with below zero temperatures, I feel like opening my door and warming up the world. While driving home earlier today, I passed by a person on the street collecting money. There are always collectors at this particular corner. Sometimes, I open the window. Sometimes, I stare straight ahead - the guilt filling me up inside on a busy morning.<br />
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Sometimes, like today, I just wish I could go buy a warm coat or offer up a cup of hot chocolate. I actually nearly drove to Starbucks and bought some warm drink back to this man, but then got sidetracked with pickup and never made it there.<br />
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I know we're freezing out there in Chicago and all across America. But, thankfully we have warm beds, and warm families to come home to at the end of the day.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09488641566964956373noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2623900162178506448.post-22589626533607717262013-10-31T08:17:00.001-07:002013-10-31T08:17:13.269-07:00Hey You, You're Okay!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 24px;">I had a down week last week. I just felt off and a little sad. I couldn't figure out exactly why or what was wrong but, I tried to pay attention to that feeling. I began to insert reasons for that emotion - perhaps I need to see a few more friends, perhaps I need to work more, busy myself more, spend more time with my kids or my husband. I had a litany of reasons for my feeling. </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; text-align: -webkit-auto;">Then, it hit me. I didn't have to have a reason for feeling sad. I could just say, <i>Okay Sara, I'm sad this week. Feel it. Let it in and move on.</i> </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; text-align: -webkit-auto;">Obviously, if those feelings linger on a while and affect your functioning then you should seek out reasons, assistance and possibly therapy. But, if you're just having a sad week - it's okay. Hug yourself, love yourself and accept your emotions as reminders of your ability to feel.</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09488641566964956373noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2623900162178506448.post-1342694136104491302013-10-29T14:13:00.002-07:002013-10-29T14:35:10.982-07:00Health Really Is The Most Important Thing<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />Putting in Mommy overtime is never easy and in the past it was just downright overwhelming. But, recently as my older ones get, well, older I know that these opportunities to care for them and enjoy them (even sick) will be farther and fewer between. So, today I have decided to be grateful for good health and grateful for the opportunity the healing is offering. A break for them from t</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">heir stressful lives in school and a break for me from the monotony of our busy life.</span></h4>
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Sometimes life is hard, noisy, full of life traffic and obligations. It was so nice to let mindfulness fill the spaces of my mind and time today. All of my children were away all day and for hours, instead of minutes, I was able to consciously think, feel, accept and rest. Renewed start for a long, exhausting and stress-filled week.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09488641566964956373noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2623900162178506448.post-91242613298478775582013-10-24T21:50:00.002-07:002013-10-29T14:36:25.955-07:00Moment of Silence<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">This was one of those crazy, drama filled days where a mother spends worrying about every child in the house. There isn't enough love in the world to describe how I feel and empathize when my children have a hard day and hurt feelings. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">At the end of this day, sitting alone in a quiet room for just the briefest of moments, I contemplate the amazing gifts that lay on these soft pillows. Strong children, learned mistakes, anticipation for tomorrow and peaceful sleeps. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Kissed cheeks, little nuzzles and whispers of I love you as I walk the rooms in this little warm home.</span></span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09488641566964956373noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2623900162178506448.post-55160726629817874662013-10-23T19:35:00.002-07:002013-10-23T19:57:45.772-07:00Sometimes You Bite The Bullet<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09488641566964956373noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2623900162178506448.post-84706828036934748912013-10-22T11:24:00.001-07:002013-10-29T14:37:28.950-07:00Getting To The Know<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background-color: white;">So often you keep things inside. You build up resentments and tell yourself ‘its just not worth it’ to say something. You keep those emotions bottled up until they explode in the heat of an argument. A loud discussion about an oil change forgotten suddenly becomes about that time 10 years ago he forgot your birthday gift and that other time he didn’t remember to water the plants.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;">You say yes, when you really mean no. You become a version of yourself filled with regret and resentment, instead of peacefulness.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;">Today I am <b>grateful for my ability to express myself</b>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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I am not talking about a big mouth. Although I may get a little bout of verbal diarrhea now and again, I like to think I have a filter. When someone pisses me off, I say so. When I’m paying for service and not getting it, I express it.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;">Although I didn’t always, I have learned to say no gently, when I really don’t want to volunteer for something, help out with that activity at the school or watch your kids on a day that isn’t working for me. I have also bumped up my acceptance. I can now say yes when I really do want pie or another piece of pizza, instead of worrying how many people are watching me pig out.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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Most importantly, I have learned to say how I feel. Share how I feel and <i>listen to how others feel.</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;">It’s not easy and I’ve not yet perfected these automated responses from my gut. But, I am much better at this than I used to be.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;">Recently, for fun, I took an online test my husband sent me from the New York Times. This <a href="http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/10/03/well-quiz-the-mind-behind-the-eyes/?smid=tw-nytimes&_r=1" target="_blank">emotion-reading quiz</a> offers photos with just a pair of eyes. You have to examine those eyes closely to figure out what they are ‘saying’ with no other information. Once I realized I got all of them right but one, I realized I have a gift for emotion reading (oh, and I beat out my husband!).<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">The ability to emote can be learned if its not innate to you. Teaching your children to express their feelings are some of the best ingredients for learning to trust, love and acceptance. Even when those feelings that are angry, disappointment or frustration they are all feelings that when brought out loud can allow you to feel and change the dynamic of an unhealthy relationship into a good one.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;">Being grateful for knowing yourself, strengths and weaknesses, allows us to hold up that mirror and like what you see.</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09488641566964956373noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2623900162178506448.post-36072530629097928802013-10-21T18:28:00.001-07:002013-10-22T11:24:16.941-07:00Oh Happiness, Where Are Thou?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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For the last 10 years I have started my morning with a cup of joe. I fought the addiction for years, but alas motherhood, insomnia and a very persistent husband made me cave. I have never regretted the move towards my pick me up and in fact have come to savor the solitude of my morning ritual.</div>
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Prompted by a quote I heard on the radio one morning, I began to think about incorporating yet another ritual but, at the end of my day. As life so often does, I got busy and put that idea on the back burner. Then today I saw this quote again:</div>
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<strong style="line-height: inherit;">If you want to find happiness, find gratitude. </strong></h2>
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Cosmic message received.</div>
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Please follow me on my daily journey to the ends of the day and back looking for joy and thankfulness for all I have and all I am.</div>
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I am hoping this new cup at the end my day will offer inspiration into your own moments of gratitude.</div>
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